Questions for Couples
Whether you have been together for two months or twenty years, the right question can start a conversation you have never had. These questions for couples cover love languages, memories, plans and the small things that make a relationship work.
Turn them into a game with Twenty1 couple mode: one of you answers about yourself, the other guesses, and at the end you get a compatibility score.
30 questions to ask your partner
- 1What's something you'd like us to try together?
- 2What song reminds you of someone you loved?
- 3What's something you'd never compromise on?
- 4What's the most romantic thing you've done for someone?
- 5What's your love language?
- 6What do you think makes a relationship last?
- 7What's one thing you'd want a partner to know about you from day one?
- 8What's a relationship deal-breaker for you?
- 9How do you show someone you care without words?
- 10How do you feel about pet names?
- 11How do you feel about long-distance relationships?
- 12What did you think the first time you saw your crush or partner?
- 13What's the cheesiest thing you secretly love in romance?
- 14What does commitment mean to you?
- 15How do you know when you're falling for someone?
- 16What's your biggest insecurity in relationships?
- 17When did you first fall in love?
- 18What's the best relationship advice you've received?
- 19How much alone time do you need in a relationship?
- 20What's something you'd love a partner to surprise you with?
- 21What do you find most attractive in a person, beyond looks?
- 22What's the sweetest text you've ever received?
- 23What's the most romantic thing someone has done for you?
- 24What did your past relationships teach you?
- 25Do you believe in soulmates?
- 26What do you think we do well together?
- 27What's a date idea you've always wanted to try?
- 28What's a date you'd love to repeat exactly as it was?
- 29What's the moment you knew you were falling for someone?
- 30When do you feel closest to someone?
15 would you rather questions for couples
- Love at first sightorLove that grows from friendship
- Have a partner who is funnyorHave a partner who is smart
- Date someone exactly like youorDate your total opposite
- A partner who's always on timeorA partner who's always spontaneous
- Meet your soulmate noworMeet them in 10 years
- Get flowers every weekorGet a big gift once a year
- Kiss in the rainorSlow dance in the kitchen
- Cuddle all nightorHave your own side of the bed
- Know your partner's every thoughtorHave them know yours
- Breakfast in bedorDinner under the stars
- Weekly date nightorMonthly weekend away
- Receive a handwritten letterorReceive a surprise trip
- Have matching tattoosorHave matching outfits for a year
- Never argueorAlways make up perfectly
- Celebrate every monthorCelebrate only the big anniversary
How to play the couples game
Take turns: one person answers a question about themselves, the other tries to guess the answer first. Score a point for each right guess (half for close), then swap roles. Couple mode works on one phone or online, each on your own device.